Fully agree CKLD!
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I also agree with Elizabethrose's earlier comment, including some replies being as negative as she has described. It's a subjective viewpoint I know but one that I concur with.
I think many individuals are not named by a poster they have issues with simply because they don't want a backlash or to be reprimanded, either online or by a Forum Admin when members indirectly complain about them. Some individuals appear to have issues about being disagreed with (not me, as I have my Big Girl's knickers pulled up).
I found this out recently as you may be aware, simply because some members didn't like my posts, both in frequency and content and complained indirectly and I was warned accordingly to moderate my posts. I don't believe I was "advertising", just sharing my experiences and my journey which has been very positive since seeing "He Who Shall Not Be Named". But I'm happy not to name *him* to keep those members happy and to comment on my treatment regime which has been life changing. (Note: Other NHS and private prescriptions are available)
Furthermore I was also made aware a couple of weeks ago when a very knowledgeable poster was criticised for posting about her HRT treatment experiences for not "being a medical doctor".
I found this ironic, because as far as I am aware, apart from Dr Currie, there are no qualified medical practitioners posting on here? I'm a Doctor (NOT of medicine ) and have done some partial training in medicine and I'm also a Chartered Scientist, so know to analyse clinical reports.
Nevertheless some members regularly give medical advice as to HRT treatment, dosage and frequency in the same (apparent) vein as a qualified medical practitioner might do; not in light of their treatment experiences on the same regime but as general HRT treatment advice.
Those are just examples that seem to be overlooked in the spirit of "sensitivity" and "sharing information" or could also be construed as at best possibly self serving and hypocritical?
So I think CKLD is spot on- the issue of sensitivity, sharing (and accepting) of different kinds of information has been overlooked and seems to me to hijacked!
When helpful information and mutual support is shared I think MM is a great place to come too.
When, however, negative posts as Elizabethrose clearly described do occur IMO, I know from personal messages I've received, it has put a lot of women off from posting, which I think is such a shame.
Seems ironic she isn't allowed to share her views either, given the subject matter of this thread !
That's my tuppence worth!
Hopefully I won't be complained about again indirectly and I genuinely value this forum when it works well!
Have great Bank Holiday weekend everyone. xx