Tempest, I hope you're doing a little better today?
I completely agree with your comments. I was put on Premarin after my oopherectomy at 34 and pretty much left to get on with it. Which I did quite well for a long time. It's only in the last few years as my GP was pressurising me into coming off the Premarin that I decided to take some control myself and went to see Prof Studd.
He was shocked to find that I had only been given oestrogen all these years but never any testosterone. My blood test showed that I had barely a trace of testosterone in my blood.
Anyway, to answer your question I have been getting on fine with both the Estrogel and the Testim, apart from a little extra hair growth at the site of the Testim application.
So, have you had any testosterone since your oopherectomy? I have to say my libido has been much improved since I started on it!
As you say, hopefully the medical profession is changing and will continue to change its stance on HRT as time goes on. I've been told there's no reason I can't be on it until I'm 70. I had a hard job previously getting my GP to let me stay on it past 50! I know I've been on it a long time but I've researched the potential problems myself and know about the risks etc. When I was younger I would avoid medicines of any kind if I could help it, but I think as I get older my priorities are changing and quality of life is now much more important to me.
Do you know that a hysterectomy and later an oopherectomy were the right choices for you at the time Tempest? With hindsight I think I was rushed into a total hysterectomy too quickly and too young. I was not really prepared for how I'd feel afterwards and felt I was left very much on my own, apart from a voluntary telephone support group I managed to find. Again, hopefully the medical profession are open to trying every possible alternative first and only use a hysterectomy/oopherectomy as a last resort.