Hurdity, you are always so kind and thoughtful. Thank you!
I've done two things the last 2 days - firstly, I have contacted the lady at NHS complaints again and explained that my situation is far from satisfactorily resolved. I tried phoning the Menopause Consultant's secretary to speak to him and he is on annual leave for a month and there is 'no scope' to bring my appointment forward from February 2017!!
The lady at complaints was very lovely and has agreed to speak to the head of Women's Services again about my case. I mentioned to her that I thought it would be now appropriate for me to be referred to Professor Mary Ann Lumsden's Menopause Clinic for women with severe menopause symptoms. She has asked me to phone her back in a couple of days if she doesn't phone me first. I am hoping upon hope that she may be able to help!
Secondly, I have posted my story on the website Patient Opinion, including all the details of how my Consultant Gynaecologist who performed the Oopherectomy denied me HRT, and how I have been forced to beg for treatment for 18 months now. I linked in all those involved in my 'care', including my GP practice, and have received an email stating that my submission has been reviewed and the appropriate parties have been contacted for their comments before my submission will be published. A bit of 'naming and shaming', if you will. I did write it thoughtfully and in a constructive manner, but I can tell you I certainly haven't held anything back!
I'll let you all know how that one goes!!!
And yes, I am binning the GP's anyway. The GP I have been seeing has had ample opportunity to refer me to a specialist (she didn't - I had to self refer to The Sandyford Clinic first (who tried their best to help, but it was beyond their scope), and then Hubby had to write to complaints before I got the referral to the Menopause Consultant). She has consistently denied me the vaginal estrogen the Menopause Specialist prescribed, has failed to contact him on my behalf and has consistently tried to belittle me and make me feel small. She also tried to push me onto mental health services, until the Consultant Psychiatrist wrote to her stating in no uncertain terms that my 'mental issues' were totally related to hormonal imbalance caused by the surgical removal of my ovaries.
Enough is definitely enough!!! In fact, I think an official complaint is in order at some point (how I wish I didn't have to waste energy on any of this and could just receive decent treatment)!