Hello ladies - I could do with a bit of help!
I posted a few days ago about lower back ache and vague nausea but I have now succeeded in absolutely terrifying myself into thinking that it means there is something awful there. I did suffer with quite bad health anxiety in the past - since my hormones started going mad - but having rushed off to the GP with one weird symptom after another, which all turned out to be nothing, I thought I had it under control. However, for the past couple of days, I have been so scared of having something really wrong with me that I can't sleep at night and keep imagining what my daughter would do without me (I am a single parent). This reduces me to tears of panic and of course makes me feel sicker. I know I am not the only one on here with health anxiety and I would be so very grateful for some calming words and to be told that I am being really stupid.
I am prone to back problems but they tend to last for a few days and then wear off, sometimes assisted by ibuprofen and heat rub. I felt something in my back 'crunch' when I was doing yoga about 6 weeks ago - I had clearly over-stretched - and was subsequently very careful, doing gentle exercise only. This seemed to be helping and in fact, the painful aspect has worn off but I am left with a lower back that feels very sore and is also very stiff in the mornings. It loosens up during the day but I can still feel the soreness and it has now moved up into my middle and upper back, making the area between my shoulder blades and below feel quite uncomfortable. I am also getting some twinges in the pelvic region and all my other joints have started to feel sore as well. It's not bad enough to need painkillers but I can't stop thinking that it should have cleared up by now and the fact that it hasn't gone within a week or so, as it normally would, means that it is something other than the normal backache I get.
I know this all sounds so stupid but in the past 3 years, I have lost one good friend to cancer and currently have 3 other women I know at various stages of treatment (all for breast cancer though). I'm sure this is preying on my mind and making me feel vulnerable and I also found out yesterday that my brother and his wife are splitting up and they were the people I had always thought would look after my daughter if anything ever happened to me. Somehow, this has made me feel even more scared and I have tried to shake myself out of it but can't seem to manage it.
I have an osteopath's appointment tomorrow and will also go to my GP but if anyone can reassure me I would be so so grateful.
Puffin x