zelda, I'm afraid when it comes to the menopause and HRT, many doctors don't know what they are talking about. It is a specialised area of medicine and you really need to speak to an expert.
Oestrogen acts like a kind of control centre for so many vital bodily functions and once the levels drop, all sorts of things start to go wrong. Low oestrogen contributes to heart attacks and strokes not to mention poor bladder function, high(er) blood pressure, vaginal problems, reduced cognitive skills and of course the ageing process goes into overdrive and many women suddenly notice their skin and hair deteriorate.
For me it's a complete no-brainer and nothing would ever stop me from using HRT.
Taz2, I think your doctor is wrong. You shouldn't have to beg her for HRT because you are over 60 and your blood pressure is slightly higher, the guidelines have been changed and there is no longer an age limit. If this carries on, I suggest you seek advice elsewhere and go to someone who knows what they are talking about. I bet Professor Studd wouldn't bat an eyelid about your blood pressure or age.