I don't struggle with hardly any of the traditional perimenopause physical symptoms. For me, it is the chronic mood swings + the awful anxiety which have so tainted the last 2 years. At times I have felt so low as to have some very frightening and dark thoughts. Other times have been so anxious that my poor DH has had to sit up with me in the middle of the night.
I have trialled various HRTs and the Pill for over a year now. But nothing has been consistently helpful for more than 2-3 weeks at a time. The mood swings, depression and anxiety always, always come back.
I have seen Dr Annie, and I'm trialling 3 sachets of sandrena + 100mg of Utro for 7 days a month (though didn't have any Utro last month as my own period started before I had chance).
So far, I haven't seen much improvement to be honest. In fact a few days into her regime my anxiety and low mood got much worse, and what followed were two weeks of absolute misery. Dreadful insomnia, feeling too anxious to leave the house alone, just wanting to cry into my hands much of the time.
Finally I broke down to my GP in tears. They suggested adding an AD to help, and I have been on 100mg of Trazadone for 11 days (I can't tolerate the newer SSRIs).
And for the last 5 days I have felt so much better. Finally, a bit of normality after roughly 6 weeks of just awful misery.
But yesterday my period started and BAHM, I'm back to feeling miserable and anxious again. It's just no life.
We have the money for me to have a full hysterectomy done privately. Dr Annie mentioned it as an option, and intimated that it is a very good solution to women who struggle like me. But said you now had to jump through a few hoops to get one, even if you are paying. I know Prof Studd is a strong advocate of it too.
I just can't really face much more of HRT, or taking ADs. It just seems crazy to take tablets to masque my symptoms, when it is my ovaries that are causing such misery. I hate never feeling any confidence that I'm going to feel okay tmrw or next week.
Any thoughts?