Ah, I know what you mean. People mean well & they think they know best so they keep pushing. I have a friend who keeps asking me to visit them for a short break. I've explained that I'm grateful, I would love to see them at some point, but with my personal situation as it is at the moment, it's not a good time for me to take a break, so 'no'. And they keep coming back 'oh, but it would do you good to have a change' etc, etc, etc. It's meant so kindly, but it's actually adding to my stress levels because on top of everything else, I have to keep dealing with their repeat requests!