Hi ladies, I'm a newbie - posted on the intro section but thought I'd give posting a go as I'm at my wit's end with myself.
Forgive the bit of a ramble - have read some of the other posts on health anxiety which have made me feel less of a nutcase, but I think I am now really going too far with all this. I've always been a bit prone to hypochondria from being a child and was actually seriously ill in my twenties when I nearly died with peritonitis (long story) so that hasn't helped. Over the last few years I have had:
breast cancer scare - recall from mammogram which was okay in the end;
water infection/blood in urine which led to investigations and convinced I had kidney cancer
then another breast cancer scare - again okay
always have heart worries as used to get really bad palpitations and am on betablockers but they don't bother me now
last December had to have bowel tests and was so convinced that I had bowel cancer - got myself in such a state that I even 'ran away' as I couldn't face it - what sane person does that sort of thing?
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The tests proved negative, even though the symptoms were so real.
So, latest problem has been chest pain; mainly since I started a new job 2 years ago (I am a secretary but find it hard now typing and being hunched all day over a desk and am shattered when I get out of work).Have taken myself to a&e twice over them - once about 12 months ago and then again recently. ECG clear but then read that ECGs aren't reliable and don't show 'blocked arteries' which of course, I think I have. Now I am getting myself in a right state, which I know won't help, thinking about bypass surgery and angiograms and stents!!! I had such bad upper shoulder and upper back ache through to my chest when I got back to the car last night - which is only a short walk - that I was convinced it was a full-blown angina attack and wanted to rush to a&e but when I got home, it passed off (another sign of angina....) and my son convinced me to just wait and get a Drs appointment and go and get all this nonsense checked out. This is the very thing that I find so hard to do as of course, I am already envisioning myself being whipped straight onto the operating table in a bad way! I am waking up in the night with 'pains' and panicky. I've also had wrist pain, not muscular type, so of course, googled and that is also a symptom of heart problems in the arteries!!!
I just want to act like 'normal' people do in this situation - make an appointment and face the worst and just get on with whatever it is.....I can't live like this anymore. I try to carry on at work as if I'm okay so that's a strain. I try not to tell my poor Mum but ended up really upsetting her last night on the phone as I told her what was happening and she said "oh no, not again please" which made me feel an absolute selfish little 'b' as I know she won't have slept for worrying now.
Sorry, just needed to ramble and get off my 'chest' - forgive the length. It just helps to vent.
Thanks.
Jules x
I promised myself that 2016 was going to be different but sadly, I'm still not putting into place my 'positive' mindset at all.
as I drive them all made with my medical problems!