Thanks for the swift replies - sounds like im heading the right direction. Just been out today and bought a summer weight duvet for my half (well two thirds) of the bed see if that helps. Have never in my life owned a summer duvet - something else new in my world!
Was at the Docs on Friday and he has given me a note for another five weeks off work and has told me to ring the hospital Monday as I still have loads of internal stitches and they shouldn't still be there. He thinks that's probably why I am still having the dragging sensations - so that could be an answer to another of my frustrations.
Just got to tell work Im not going back this week - that should be an interesting conversation
They are less than sympathetic so Im debating the cowards way and sending an e mail.
Its my birthday tomorrow and Im feeling really positive that this year is going to be brilliant. No more bleeding, no more buying new clothes when Im out shopping because there has been a flood and I have ruined my outfit, booking a holiday without wondering if there will be a toilet on the beach and best of all being able to do aqua aerobics without a friend watching for my 'slip stream' leak (yes this has happened)
I feel that with the help and advice of you lot on here I will deal with this menopause business and start to live my life.
Here's to being a new woman.