Hello donnacrichton.
I think I am in a similar position as you. I am 5 years post menopause and have been using Evorel 50 mcg patches for about 8 months. I felt I was making progress but this last week I have felt terrible with flushes, nausea, diarrhoea, tearfulness, irritability you name it. I am so sick of this meno journey as I suspect are you!
I was interested to see that Cubagirl felt better on a lower dose and she is correct in that we are all different, shame we all have to suffer the same problems though!
Sorry I can't be of more help but you have my sympathy and sending hugs.
K.