sheila99 - I don't get your argument.
If their mortgage wasn't paid, they would have been made homeless within 6 months. Parents had no room for a family of 5. Banks etc. will snatch back property B4 too many debts are raised on it.
Is that better for a family of 5 2 B in box City than applying for food? Emergency food access was essential for this family. As I stated, 1 cannot have more than 3 boxes at a time, dependant on the Charity involved - each box is enough for 3 days' support and made up according to the needs of the household. It helped this family fill a gap at a time of need.
The upheaval of kicking out a family is HUGE. Movement from schools/friends/health care ........
I have always been a saver
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and always look for bargains in the sales etc.. People helped me whilst I was growing up so I like to give something back. We weren't able to get into Debt. When DH applied to join a bank as a Student he had to have a reference! same with the mortgage application which we took out over 25 years. Now mortgages are likely to be 30+ years ........... credit wasn't as easily bought when I was growing up.