My GP asked me how long I wanted to stay on HRT and I said for life, but she said that is not possible.
I said, well, isn't it my choice, what with it being my body, but she said no.
I want to stay on hrt for life, I don't mind changing my patch every 3.5 days and taking utro 12 days each month, for the rest of my life.
I am prepared to run the risk, because hrt gives me quality of life.
I said to my doctor in response to her original question of how long I wanted to stay on hrt, I said, that my life was not worth living without hrt, and she said that she didn't want to make my life bad, but I would have to come off hrt at 55yrs of age.
I read somewhere (sorry I don't have link) that women who start flushes while still having periods have years of flushing. Dunno if it's true, but I started at 42, and am now 49. Was on femoston for over a year, which did nothing but I was reluctant to go back to GP as she got a bit short with me, and that put me off, I felt a bit embarrassed, not at hrt, but as she was short with me
After a year of being on femoston and still flushing like mad, went up the doses with patches, and am now happy on 100mcg evorel and femoston, but it was hard work getting over the human induced hurdles, except for one good gp.
hrt balanced me out, it gave me the oestrogen that my body had been crying out for, for 4 years without me realising what it was.
I was waking up in a sweat and flushing, but put it down to weaning off valium, which I was doing at the time. I blamed valium withdrawals for 4 years of low moods, flushing, sweating when waking and over sweating on exertion.