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another Forum I left because there was one person there: male or female: that went out of his/her way to diss others. Despite being 'moderated' : apparently
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: this person was taken off the Forum and then let back on because he/she knew one of the mods.. When he/she told me something about DH that was absolutely not true I left. The person told a lies, making out that I was divorcing my husband …….
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in the real World of course, he/she would now be in Court!
I was invited to be a mod on one US-based health group but after 5 years the owner suddenly took a 'dislike' to me ……. I kept within guidelines but spoke my mind regarding stuff. She suddenly didn't like what I was offering up even though it was personal experience/s. So I sent a rude open e-mail to her and left. Several years later another mod. sent me a PM to tell me that the owner had been going through a 'bad time' and maybe I would like to drop by? but hey, we were all there because we were going through a 'bad time'
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Same with a dog group - offering up personal experiences about issues and 2 others told me I was incorrect
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- so again I left and I did get some supportive PMs after.
It's friendly here. Despite our occasional spats we do seem to get alone
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