Hi mariachumasbaker - welcome to the forum. You have come to the right place.
It's understandable that you are feeling as you are with all of the upheaval you have been through. CLKD is right in that if you still have a womb, even when you are post meno (over a year without a period) you will still need a progesterone to keep the lining thin. The suggestion of a Mirena coil to do this was correct but is not one that every woman wants. You say that Elleste didn't suit you. It can take quite a few goes before you find the right HRT for you so don't despair although you do need to try each one for around three months to let any unwanted side effects hopefully subside. What side effects did you have from Elleste?
It is really good that you are going for a scan to check the womb lining thickness. Once this is done you will know where you are and have a level playing field so to speak for beginning an HRT which suits you better. There are lots of ladies on here who are on Utrogestan as the progesterone element of their HRT which seems to give less side effects so this may well work better for you.
It may seem an uphill struggle at the moment but with the help from the great women on this site you will find it much easier.
Taz x
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