Hi PollyH - we may have spoken before - please excuse any repetition.
Snap - I'm highly prog intolerant - so you have my sympathies - I know what despair you are going through - I've also been on this mad HRT merry-go-round for c. 8 years, been through the spectrum of progesterones and turned down Mirena and hyster - my fear with hyster is swapping one set of problems for another, which can happen - or finding that after having hyster and being on estro only that I still feel just as bad or worse, eeeek!
Quite a few times I've tried to come off HRT due to prog intolerance - but each time I have to go back on as I also get so ill, can't stop crying etc etc, you know how it is. However, I also don't feel that great on the patch - but much much worse off it and realise that more than anything my brain needs the estrogen. Caught between a rock and a hard place.
Utro use always makes me feel ghastly and is different each time - this time I felt really exhausted and hideous on days 1 to 3, then had a migraine, then managed to carry on. I take the lower Utro 100, v-route. It's far from ideal.
My first thought is - could reduce your patch?
I know the strung out, depressed, agitated feeling of needing to have a bleed - I'm on only ultra low patch, *half* of Estraderm 25 - recently the meno clinic said I could go 12 weeks between taking Utro - but I could only last 10 weeks as I felt like what you're describing - needing a bleed, estrogen overload. This is just me though and somebody else may be fine on such a low dose without taking prog. There is such a patch used in USA - Menostar 14 mcg applied once weekly, no progesterone.
If you were on a lower dose patch, say 25 - or less - you may have to compromise in terms of only partial symptom control (as I do) but the pay off is that you may not get the 'overload'. If having regular endo scans is not a problem then it could be a way forward.
How are you feeling now?
Night_Owl
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