You know, it's not just 'others' who can be inconsiderate; family can be just as bad.
Because I am up early, a good three to four hours before everyone else in the house, I am always careful to keep my noise to a minimum whilst others are sleeping. I am also always the first one in bed at night. Do I get the same consideration? Not a chance! Doors bang, people hare up and down stairs, have loud conversations, have their shows turned up, cause ww3 in the kitchen; the list goes on. It doesn't seem to cross their minds to show me the same respect I show them. They'd be (and have been) super fast to complain if I did it to them!
This extends to all areas. I'm apparently the only one who knows how to change a loo roll, empty a bin, take in other peoples washing if it starts to rain, clear my own mess behind me, including food and drink I make which may leave debris of some sort. I'm the only one who can answer the phone, or the front door, only one who can fix any problem from physical to emotional. Do I get the same in return? Do I f**k
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I have tried not doing the things, behaving like they do, but I can't bear the mess, or deal with the feelings of awkwardness and inconsideration that come with doing as they do.
So yes, people in the street who walk at you whilst on their phone, never thinking to getting out of your way, assuming you will move, are out there in droves, but there's a fair amount of the same behaviour within my home, maybe yours too. What bothers me is that I did not bring my kids up that way, and for the most part they are intelligent, socially able human beings. Is this just a general shift in what is considered to be acceptable behaviour in the modern age, and something those of us who still believe in considering others will have to learn to accept? If so... I'm not sure I want to be a part of this world! So cave in the deep dark woods it is
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