Hello . I did survive the day but now am worrying about everything. Sorry but don't know what else to say.
Love to all
Sally
A lot of good advice above, the key thing is - life is too short to let a job spoil it.
A number of years ago I followed one of my directors when he set up his own business. With the stress he eventually became a huge bully and made everyone's life hell, so much so I got that sinking feeling and knot in my stomach on a Sunday night. Eventually the eureka moment came when telling a friend - "if it's that bad, why don't you just leave?". Ironically as it sounds I hadn't considered that at all. Timing was crap, I split with my hubby a week later (not connected) and as the major breadwinner it wasn't good on the finances but it saved my sanity....and something better soon came along.
What would you want to happen? Do you want to stay in your job, do you enjoy it even?
Can you see a feasible way forward to resolve the situation - managers always like constructive proposals rather than having problems landing on their desk
Is leaving an option for you, time to try something new?
Try not to dwell too much on the problems but focus on the good bits and how to make those better - in the same way a runner doesn't focus on each and every hurdle, but rather the end point. That's presuming there are some good bits of course? (Salary, location perhaps, comfort...).
If you find the situation untenable, I actually do think going off on sick will only postpone the issue and you're likely to spend the time worrying about it more.
How is your manager dealing with this?
An awful situation for you but I do hope you'll find a suitable resolution soon,
GG x
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