"The HRT message comes across very strong, almost evangelical at times"
Sorry babyjane but if you think that then its just in your own mind.
From what I see from ladies on HRT, its mentioned in the context of how its helped them, the options, the journey etc.
I've not seen the evidence of your above point.
To say otherwise just lets down those on the forum that give their time to share their journeys through peri and meno.
If others gain from that and if its gives a few ladies some hope, solace and relief, then the world is better for it.
Your not letting yourself down, your just part of a generation that's been frightened away from whats possible.
Thanks to MM and all who contribute.