I have felt better within myself since last Wednesday when suddenly that awful, dragging depressed/dread feeling lifted from me. It was wonderful for it to be gone.
Thursday I felt quite drained but so much lighter inside, probably just the relief from not feeling so very down.
But I am still very aware of the background anxiety just gently simmering away under the surface and it's really getting me down. Don't get me wrong. I can function fine. I am not experiencing the waves of dread etc for which I am very, very grateful. But I know the anxiety is there just hovering at the periphery, trying to break through and it's like the HRT is holding it at bay but only just. Weird sensation.
I have just spent a really lovely afternoon at a friend's house for a BBQ. All our closest friends having a laugh and all the children having a great time on the trampoline. Just so lovely. But all the time it is an effort for me to chat away and laugh. It's not coming spontaneously or naturally at all. And all because of this hovering anxiety.
The anxiety made me secretly reluctant to leave the group and go on my own to the loo. The anxiety really put me on edge when I had to spend 10 minutes in our friend's dark shed trying to dig out an extra chair (when my anxiety is present I HATE being left alone and I HATE being in a dark room).
I know it's actually appositive thing that I was able to go to the BBQ at all and at least have 'half' a good time. I know there are plenty of people who have anxiety so badly that even leaving their home isn't an option. But it makes me so sad to know I'm not fully myself and that I'm not fully enjoying myself, or even 'half' enjoying myself really to be honest.
Sorry to whinge. But I begrudge that yet another 'should be' very happy memory has been tainted by this hormonal anxiety.
Another thing I have noticed is that emotionally I am feeling really quite numb and have done for at least 2.5 weeks now. Just simply not experiencing any of that up welling of love that I always have for my husband. But it's not just him. I'm not even experiencing it for my children either, if I'm honest. Just nothing really there when I look at them and I'm certainly not interested in being cuddly or affectionate with any of them
At least I am not still experiencing that awful deadening low mood I had up until last Wednesday, but this absence of any emotion really isn't pleasant either. I am 10 days into my Utrogestan which I understand has a 'deadening' effect on people so not sure if it's just the Utro making me feel like this? But I don't remember feeling this 'no feeling' sensation when I took it the first time?
Anyone else affected by progesterone like this? If this is caused by the Utrogestan and is on going then HRT isn't going to be for me. I can't spend 12 days per month feeling nothing for my husband and children