I empathise with you both.
Looking back, I am annoyed with myself that I wasn't more proactive earlier on - but you get to to the point where everything, including even visiting the GP, is an effort (especially when you don't know how you'll be feeling in an hour, let alone a week!). I knew I had to do something when I realised I was avoiding 'real life' (anything beyond simply existing) and waking up already wishing it was bed time. Not how a 40 year old is meant to be, especially one who, up to that point, had been so enthusiastic about life. I even got to the point of being scared to go shopping (not quite sure what I was actually scared of!) and started ordering clothes online.
I would hate to mislead you in saying everything is back to normal. I think, realistically, that will never happen. However, the balance has now shifted so that the bad days no longer dominate/dictate my life. The spotting is a pain, but it's only very light, and if it means I need a stronger pill eventually, then so be it. I must add that Qlaira took a good three months (plus) for me to feel like this, so if you do try it, then persevere.
Good luck xx