You've been told how other ladies with piles have seen blood and still you google
- you've been to a Dr and been given treatment and still you google
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I doubt if many people who went on to develop colon/bowel cancer had fresh blood in the pan. Both areas of the body are higher up the intestinal tract working from the anus upwards ……… so it takes longer for blood to be passed from those areas. Which sites did you GOOGLE, NHS or another one 'out there' which isn't medic based?
Why go private, why not ring your Practice Nurse/GP and ask for reassurance: along the lines of "I wasn't listening properly at my last visit, could you remind me ……… "
Are you still bleeding? Remember, what you see seems a lot but in fact, once the pile has popped, the remaining bleed is likely to be from any scab/scarring ……… as you pass the next motion. A little blood goes a long way!