thorntrees, next time we stay in a hotel, it will be separate beds! At home, we start the night together, then he migrates to the spare room when he gets up for the loo. If he returns back to our bed, he wakes me up and keeps me awake with his restlessness and snoring. Such is life...gets in the way of romance, but we make up for it in the daytime!
My son has had sleep apnoea since his teens. He was always so tired, yet there was no obvious reason until he slept in the same room as a friend. He got no help other than diagnosis over here, though he didn't persist, but has said he will pursue now he lives in the USA. He's slim, fit and doesn't drink or smoke, so not the usual profile for such a problem.
DH eats loads of bananas, but apparently his chiropractor advised him to take magnesium tablets, which were too big to swallow!
I've been reading in the dark hours of the night that soda water could help. Not sure he would drink the required amount. Anyway he's agreed to mention the problem to his GP in his next appointment.