Poor you!
I'm not sure I'll be any help
I was told maximum prescribed dose of Oestrogel of 4 pumps is equal to Evorel 100 patch.
I've recently changed from gel to patch. The gel dose of 4 pumps in the morning wore off by 4-6pm so I had to use another one or two pumps before bed. My blood level then went extremely high despite me still having low symptoms in the evenings.
When I changed to the patch I had to reduce the 100 dose to evorel 75 after two weeks as I started having symptoms of being too high.
Thankfully I'm having way more good days than bad so I'm trying to stick to 75.
Hope you get sorted soon. X