Sorry you are getting these horrible symptom but it does sound normal with the menopause.
Here are 35 symptoms of going through the meno that Poppyrose listed several years ago:
(1) Anxiety, feeling ill at ease
(2) Hot flashes/flushes, night sweats and/or cold flashes, clammy feeling
(3) Irregular heart beat
(4) Irritability
(5) Mood swings, sudden tears
(6) Trouble sleeping through the night (with or without night sweats)
(7) Irregular periods; shorter, lighter periods; heavier periods, flooding; phantom periods, shorter
cycles, longer cycles
(8 ) Loss of libido
(9) Dry vagina
(10) Crashing fatigue
(11) Feelings of dread, apprehension, doom
(12) Difficulty concentrating, disorientation, mental confusion
(13) Disturbing memory lapses
(14) Incontinence, especially upon sneezing, laughing; urge incontinence
(15) Itchy, crawly skin
(16) Aching, sore joints, muscles and tendons
(17) Increased tension in muscles
(18) Breast tenderness
(19) Headache change: increase or decrease
(20) Gastrointestinal distress, indigestion, flatulence, gas pain, nausea
(21) Sudden bouts of bloat
(22) Depression
(23) Exacerbation of existing conditions
(24) Increase in allergies
(25) Weight gain
(26) Hair loss or thinning, head, pubic, or whole body; increase in facial hair
(27) Dizziness, light-headedness, episodes of loss of balance
(28) Changes in body odour
(29) Electric shock sensation under the skin and in the head
(30) Tingling in the extremities
(31) Gum problems, increased bleeding
(32) Burning tongue, burning roof of mouth, bad taste in mouth, change in breath odor
(33) Osteoporosis (after several years)
(34) Changes in fingernails: softer, crack or break easier
(35) Tinnitus: ringing in ears, bells, 'whooshing,' buzzing etc
Now I'm not saying that you will get all of them but it is a useful guide. If anything worries you or concerns you then get it checked out with you doctor.
Cazikins x