Hi Ceci.
I could honestly say, I seem to have had a carbon copy of your symptoms.
I too, am 55 and have had all sorts of symptoms through the menopause and into post menopause.
Just over a year ago, I started getting backache followed by spasms. I had an MRI which showed nothing bar wear and tear.
I also had a show of blood on the toilet tissue last September and promptly went to the doctor as it had been 2 years since my last period. They are very keen for you to get seen and I had a gynae appointment the following week. I had a vaginal ultrasound, pap smear and a biopsy, the results were clear. It was the weirdest thing seeing your bits come up on screen above your head but the uterine lining wasn't thick and I only had a very small fibroid.
I had another show of bright red blood on the toilet tissue last night and am now in a quandary as to what to do. It's only been 8 months since my gynae appointment, does that mean it should be olay anyone?
Today, I feel sore and itchy almost like my vagina is inflamed. I may have inadvertanly "nicked" myself in the shower or when I was applying some Yes, Yes, Yes water based lubricant? How can you tell where the blood is coming from, unless you're a trapeze artist?
To make matters worse, I live in Norway and sometimes there's a language barrier.
It would be great to hear from you, as, I'm a born worrier like yourself and have every eventuality going through my head. I think I shall take a urine sample to the doc when I get an app as it may be the start of a UTI.