This account is long and tangled - apologies for that. I was wondering if those of you who are experienced with menopause (and others experiences) might be able to identify what is run-of-the-mill and what might not be.
I was in an RTA just as I was transitioning to menopause. I was concussed and it seemed to take a while for me to recover from it - and when I did, I'd gained a lot of weight and lost a huge amount of my fitness, endurance/stamina, and strength (all of which were considerable - 4 weeks before the accident, I shifted 4 tonnes of hard landscaping material through the house in a weekend, unaided, as there's no rear access to our back garden; I've engaged in various sports since childhood).
I'm down to 20-30% of the weights that I used to use for strength training warm-ups and my personal bests are unrecognisably low. My stamina is poor (for me).
Everyone kept saying that muscle memory would ensure that my muscle mass/strength/fitness would return. Well, it didn't. And I was having tremendous difficulty losing the added weight. Enough things happened that I opted for a body composition analysis (later confirmed by DXA scan) and was horrified to discover that I was 42% body fat.
To cut a long story short, I gained a lot of weight but also in 3-4 years, somehow I lost 25lbs of lean body mass (including muscle) and gained far more body fat than even the scale had indicated. I picked up several joint injuries; I'd lost enough muscle mass that at the age of 53, I was categorised at sarcopenic by the Baumgartner formula.
I've had repeat DXAs to monitor what's happening and although I've got the body fat under control (it's currently 20%), I'm rapidly losing bone mineral density, and I'm putting in a tremendous amount of time and effort to maintain my muscle mass (such as it is) but I'm losing muscle quality and making no progress (I'm still going backwards in strength terms). My cholesterol has also increased beyond recognition.
I'd like to follow the BEST programme (Bone, Estrogen and Strength Training) to improve both my strength and bones. However, at the last DXA, I was advised that I should have my lumbar and sacro-iliac spine checked as it looked as if they're considerably less dense than other areas and I was warned that I'm at risk for fragility fractures.
I'm working with a physiotherapist at present to improve the quality of my joints (I was advised to have surgery on them but I really don't think I can tolerate the immobilisation or rehab. without losing more muscle mass and that would set up a host of other problems). The physiotherapist was non-confrontational and didn't get frustrated with me but at my last session, he asked if I'm aware that I sometimes have amnesia for something that I've just done and that for someone who is otherwise functioning well, I seem to have a lot of difficulty learning a new exercise. He suggested that I should speak to a neurologist.
I can't tell if I need a chat with a neurologist, an endocrinologist, or if it's all part of the many facets of menopause. Does the above pretty much sound like menopause?
So, I'm wondering if it's time for a chat with a GP to discuss whether HRT might help with the loss of bone mineral density and other issues or if, when they finally look at the detail of my blood work, the automatic recommendation will be for statins altho' I feel they're the last thing I need given my muscle loss/memory issues.