Hi Donna. Im on 2pumps day following removal of both ovaries.
I tend to spread 1 pump very quickly across each inner thigh. Then leave to dry for 10/15 mins before dressing. Every day in the shower i use a muslin cloth over inner thighs and lightly exfoliate as i find this helps absorption, but maybe all in the mind.
Previously i rubbed it in too hard and found it dried too quickly and didnt absorb so well.
Never tried it on shoulder.
Good luck