CLKD - I think it's wise to remember the whole body has a part to play in this period of our lives, adrenals etc and that given a good base of health, food, excercise and stress management , balance and symptoms might just happen without too much distress. Sadly, I do think our bodies can remain in a hormonal imbalance, well at least they revert to it, sort of like a bad habit
Silverlady - I am very sorry that I have indirectly caused upset for you, I appreciate you sharing. You are explaining the differences well.
Hurdity - I really do see how this site is trying to make sure women are not misinformed, misguided etc but it should be clear from my posts that I am approaching things with eyes wide open and am able to form my own judgement on whether this company selling products responds to me in a way that gives me confidence in their product. To me, it is no different than asking questions of our GP's and other sources on the efficacy of medication they prescribe. It isn't a given that everyone finds 'comfort' in regulated products or statistics, sometimes the attitude of the healthcare provider is important too - albeit 'unregulated', which of course carries risks. Isn't it swings and roundabouts with all these things?
I do not think that biodentical hormones are 'natural' - I have worked in the natural health industry and this whole issue of natural is a bit frustrating - both from the point of view of claims, perceptions and understanding. No hormone replacement system that we are discussing is natural. I view it with the same risks as HRT on one level but......if I need a bridge in the short term I can choose between a prescription from my GP (if he will provide it) or from a company selling it, or someone prescribing it -either way I want to be able to tailor any treatment I choose.
All that being said, I have also been a moderator and realise that community management is intrinsic to keeping the tone and approach of the forum. I really did think there would be a wider variety of discussion beyond management of HRT etc and it seems that really there isn't and perhaps the underlying premise of the site doesn't suit me.
There really are a lot of solutions out there, to all sorts of issues that relate to menopause, be it the hormone replacement aspect, stress management, herbal remedies to help ease minor symptoms, mindfullness coaching and many of them are regulated, used by some doctors and offer a great range for a great number of women. There are some great websites out there that don't sell anything and still discuss all these choices.
It's a complicated subject and perhaps the value of this forum really is in helping women manage their HRT - that is certainly needed and a great resource. I think unless I am taking HRT, I might bow out for now.
Thanks everyone for the input and discussion.