This is *your* journey. Become selfish or you will burn off precious energy on others. The best thing for me was when people offered to do the housework ……. or simply sit, quietly …….. or stay away but send little notes
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Once I got into the swing of surgical intervention and treatment sessions my day became structured as my radiation was at the same time every week day - so I was able to go into work in the morning, go for treatment and home for a rest!
You may well feel in limbo until you have spoken with the Oncologist.