Hi,
It's been a while since i wrote anything on here. I do come on here and take a peek now and then.
I have been feeling really irritated by people lately and get very sensitive about things that in the big world are really small and shouldn't really matter to me.
I fell out with my sister after Xmas. I love her to pieces but i just got to the point where i was so fed up with her behaviour and selfish attitude i needed to come clean and tell her how i was feeling. It's been a long time coming and we have become really close over the last few years which made it harder. I just got so fed up with being a listening board for her and reached a point where i thought why do i put up with it?
I wrote her a letter and not an angry one (worst sort) and didn't rant, i took my time and told her what was bothering me, there was no point in trying to discuss it with her face to face as she is the worst listener and it would only result in an angry row where things would've been said in the heat of the moment we would both regret. I won't go into details about it all but we have helped her a hell of a lot through the years and have gone full circle into another similar situation.
Obviously i knew she'd be angry but three weeks on she has not replied as she said she would and i have had no contact whatsoever with her apart from a few emails when she received the letter.
I feel invisible, i needed to do this with my sister but I feel so sensitive about other things too. If i go out with family or friends i have to fight to be heard when i talk as there is always someone who talks over me, if i am talking and someone else comes along i immediately get cut off as the other person seems more important or interesting to talk to.
I never get the compliments, it's always the person i am with, whoever they are. I have come off Facebook as it just makes me feel crap and stupid things got to me, i would put a picture on there of a family event or something i or we had done and barely anyone would comment on on it but someone else does the same and it was endless comments about how great it was etc....i feel so jealous of others and their lives even though i know that we only see the best side of people and their lives on there.
I read a great quote today:
"Comparison is the thief of joy." Theodore Roosevelt
which for me sums up Facebook and what it's actually all about, i loved it.
I take so much to heart lately, it's horrible, i just feel so fed up with people and feel if i never saw anyone again they wouldn't even notice or be bothered.
My emetophobia has also become much worse so i am constantly anxious about me or someone close being ill, i worry even if it's a cold.
Does anyone else feel like this, is it hormones? I am a natural worrier but the last few months i have become worse, i turn 40 in August and just wondered if others felt like this more nearer the menopause?