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………… that would give me plenty of time to practice being grumpy and difficult then
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People do get into habits of being miserable. I had habits which new friends pointed out to me as I had no idea how I came/come across to others
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……… perhaps being miserable keeps some people 'going' keeps their brain active in finding things to be miserable about
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Honeybun - I wonder if you were a fly on the wall how your Mum would 'come over' to others who visit, even to your sister ………..
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