Hi , i mentioned in another thread that my daughter was having problems at uni and there have been developments.
Her second year house of 5 girls seems to have turned against her for no apparent reason, due I think to one particular girls attitude, which seems to have spread.
My daughter asked this girl if there were any issues and this girl accused her of picking on her, even though she had talked unkindly about my daughter behind her back to cause the situation, saying she didnt want to live with her again next year.
Daughter is always kind, friendly, thoughtful, doesnt make noise or is untidy, so she is really hurt. And as we all know, group dynamics are a funny thing. So while she could brush it off and cope for a couple of weeks, now she is avoiding the house because of the atmosphere.
Final straw was none of them went to see her in an annual show last night, which was when she rang me, and I got no sleep. She has other freinds on her course and clubs, but these girls were her best friends from the first year.
I think the 'ringleader' is a passive aggressive type.
Any advice, as I cant bear her being so miserable x