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[Lynjane]

I think the input from all of the above is valid and helpful. But I would say that I've noticed that, since the onset of menopause, I can become a little obsesive about certain people's behaviour! These are people in my life whom, I feel, abuse the generosity of myself and DH, I have to sometimes tell myself, let it go it won't change! But it's constantly nibbling away at my well being! Maybe not the same situation, but possibly the same effect?!

[Winterose]

Think it makes you a lot more sensitive , but maybe when children were around we didnt have time to be

[Limpy]

What I want to know is if the obsession is something to do with the menopause? has anyone else found their feelings for a single thing, or person been extreme? I would really like to know.

Shony - I've have had major obsessions in the past - Thankfully they don't seem to occur so much now.
Don't think menopause caused them, might be hormones though..........

Really hope you feel better / calmer in yourself soon

[Lynjane]

Winterose, you could have a good point there!

[Suzi Q]

Thanks for the comments.  However, I'm not suggesting that I did the right thing. That was not my question. I know absolutely that I did the wrong thing. Please don't focus on the event, but the feelings.

What I want to know is if the obsession is something to do with the menopause? has anyone else found their feelings for a single thing, or person been extreme? I would really like to know.

Thanks

NO as I said this is you and how you feel u have to try to find out why u feel tihs way
Too many times we blame meno when its other issues non related
I  know Ive become harder with post meno I dont suffer fools and dont spend any time anymore with people
Who bring nothing to the table except negativity. BUT is that just me after 3 years of recognative thrapy finally saying enough theres only 52 sats a year IM not spending them with crap people
In reading you havent answered wot type of feelings u have rage anger love feelings of rejection if so why
Seeing someone can help to sort the wheat from the chaff Do u think could be her Youth thats atractive?
Or are u someone like my cousin whos lifes not full unless its all drama we call her dramatic annie
When everythings OK she gets bored or cant believce it. U do defo need to see someone it can only help u xxx

[CLKD]

SuziQ - my Mum is like that - never happy unless there's a crisis-type situation to chew on!

[Suzi Q]

My cousin Tish is the same every days a dram and if it isnt she turns it in to one BUT I ADORE HER hehehe

[CLKD]

Should we lock this thread 

[honeybun]

Any reason why CLKD ?


Honeyb
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[Limpy]

Must admit I was thinking that.
Just assumed I was being thick - happening more and more these days.

[CLKD]

Because we have answered the query and the poster seems to have gone 

[Limpy]

Gone?
She's not showing as guest.
Was the query answered.........
When do threads get locked.

[CLKD]

There's been no response though ……….

[Limpy]

Hmm - See what you mean......
However, seems a bit harsh to lock somebody else's thread?

[tiger74]

Because we have answered the query and the poster seems to have gone 

Who are "we"?

There may be people who come on here occasionally who would like to make a contribution and respond to the original question about obsessive/irrational behaviour and menopause and will be unable to do so if the thread is locked

It appears that the original poster has been active on this site in the past few days.

Are people who post on here written off if they don't make a new comment on threads they've started after 6 days? Are their queries shut down while they are waiting for further input?