Hurdity, I for one NEVER post on threads where the ladies discuss their HRT use/problems. One because as a non HRT user it would be arrogant of me to do so. Two, because they don't interest me, and lastly because It's not my place to say you should not take HRT.
Perhaps you should stop trying to persuade us non takers that HRT should be taken, even if we don't want to.
It's call good manners.