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Dancinggirl

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #45 on: September 29, 2014, 05:10:43 PM »

Dandelion - sorry I didn't get back to you sooner - it's been a busy day!!! That looks great. As ellie says - just copy and paste to Dr. Currie.
Keep us posted about your progress.   DG x
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Dandelion

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #46 on: September 30, 2014, 10:13:36 AM »

Dandelion - sorry I didn't get back to you sooner - it's been a busy day!!! That looks great. As ellie says - just copy and paste to Dr. Currie.
Keep us posted about your progress.   DG x
Hi DG

Heather currie wrote back and said that pills are more poorly absorbed than patches and that my migraine is NOT a reason not to have patches.
This is what she wrote
"There is a huge variation in how much estrogen we absorb from the bowel
from tablet HRT, and then how quickly we break it down--some women just
do not get enough estrogen into the system from tablets to control the
symptoms. Therefore if no help from Femoston 2/10, would agree that
patches would be better. With a history of migraine, patches anyway are
preferred rather than tablets so migraine is NOT a reason NOT to use
patches, instead, migraine is a reason to use patches!"

I don't have a clue how I am going to tell my GP that I went over their heads and spoke to a consultant gynaecologise though.
I don't wanna move surgery cos these doctors know me really well.
I am on Employment Support Allowance, and these doctors write my evidence letters, if I were to change, I would not have anyone to write my evidence letter for my reassessment of ESA.
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Maryjane

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #47 on: September 30, 2014, 10:44:36 AM »

I had to go over my GPS head recently through desperation, and they where fine about it, more relieved actually I think.
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Dancinggirl

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #48 on: September 30, 2014, 12:38:42 PM »

Just print out Dr Curries response and show it to the GP.
Just be very calm with them and explain you needed some advice from a Gynaecologist that specialises in menopause symptom control and that DR Currie set up this website to help women with menopausal problems and you paid £25 to have her advice which goes towards maintaining the site. Show them the email you sent Dr. Currie and also her response.  when I did this with my GP she was fine and kept all the print out's fro her records - your GPs should do the same.
You have just asked for a second opinion and they should be happy you took the initiative.
Good luck  DG x
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Dandelion

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #49 on: September 30, 2014, 01:39:03 PM »

Just print out Dr Curries response and show it to the GP.
Just be very calm with them and explain you needed some advice from a Gynaecologist that specialises in menopause symptom control and that DR Currie set up this website to help women with menopausal problems and you paid £25 to have her advice which goes towards maintaining the site. Show them the email you sent Dr. Currie and also her response.  when I did this with my GP she was fine and kept all the print out's fro her records - your GPs should do the same.
You have just asked for a second opinion and they should be happy you took the initiative.
Good luck  DG x
Hi DG

Thanks for your post. I will do that.
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CLKD

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #50 on: September 30, 2014, 02:33:11 PM »

Every day is a learning curve.  GPs can't keep up with modern technology and you may be pleasantly surprised - yours may be pleased that you have positive information to work with.  If not, time to find another GP Practice!
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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #51 on: September 30, 2014, 03:05:53 PM »

Is it just me I am on elleset duet 1mg when I start green tabs I get very windy my boobs hurt is that just because my period due to come or do the tabs make you windy and sore :)
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Dandelion

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #52 on: September 30, 2014, 07:22:04 PM »

Every day is a learning curve.  GPs can't keep up with modern technology and you may be pleasantly surprised - yours may be pleased that you have positive information to work with.  If not, time to find another GP Practice!
Hi CKLD

My GP is a real sweetie. She is always fully booked. I have quite a few friends who have her, and they all speak highly of her.
I really like her, and she said she is really fond of me, but no one's perfect, and there has only been two problems I had with her in the fourteen years I have been with her. One was she said it was ok to take prescription diazepam 2 or 3 times a week and not het hooked.
I did get hooked, diazepam has an enormously long halflife, so the last lot was still in my system when I was taking it again, for about 6 years.
HRT is the other thing I have had problems with her.
She only knows what she is trained though and they are so hellishly busy that there is probably no time to bone up on the latest menopause research.
Ironically, she is going through menpause herself, but she says HRT is contra-indicated for her so she has to 'put up with the flushes'
As for the internet, she is an old fashioned one, even though she is only a few years older than me. She knows I use the internet, but when I tell her I got info from a website, I can sense her switching off.
Other than that, with my mental health, my lungs, my ibs etc, she is great.
She also makes me laugh, she is a pretty woman, and very dotty, and anything gives her the giggles.
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Dancinggirl

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #53 on: September 30, 2014, 09:30:37 PM »

Dandelion - I understand your dilemma.  I see a practise nurse at our GP practise who is absolutely delightful - she was the one who encouraged me to take a break from HRT to see how I felt and was the first to try to treat my Vaginal Atrophy.  She is also going through meno and can't have HRT because of a family link with breast cancer so I can tell she is rather anti HRT.  Health professionals are human - perhaps your GP is struggling with meno and because she can't have HRT herself has a bit of a mental block about it. She has made up her mind that it's something dangerous or at least negative so is reluctant to prescribe.
You will have to approach this subject very carefully when you see her. TRy to rehearse an  upbeat and positive way to tell her about the advice you have been given by Dr. Currie.
Good luck  Dg x
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Dandelion

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #54 on: September 30, 2014, 10:27:10 PM »

Dandelion - I understand your dilemma.  I see a practise nurse at our GP practise who is absolutely delightful - she was the one who encouraged me to take a break from HRT to see how I felt and was the first to try to treat my Vaginal Atrophy.  She is also going through meno and can't have HRT because of a family link with breast cancer so I can tell she is rather anti HRT.  Health professionals are human - perhaps your GP is struggling with meno and because she can't have HRT herself has a bit of a mental block about it. She has made up her mind that it's something dangerous or at least negative so is reluctant to prescribe.
You will have to approach this subject very carefully when you see her. TRy to rehearse an  upbeat and positive way to tell her about the advice you have been given by Dr. Currie.
Good luck  Dg x
Thanks DG, I'll need it - hahhahahaha
I'll write it down as much as possible but as brief as possible,
Maybe I'll drop in that the british ladies (*my doc thinks I read american stuff, and 'stuff's different there') on here are recommended this site by their GP's as well as the obvious being, the fact that Dr Currie is an NHS consultant Gynaecologist.
Hopefully that'll show her I am talking with people who she recognises as credible, one of her kind, medics from nhs. :)

Yeah, your nurse relationship sounds very similar to me and my dotty doctor.

I thought I read on here that there were hardly any contra-indications and that most people could actually take hrt?

It seems such a shame, if so, that there is so much falsehoods spread about and taken as truth by so many women, and so much needless suffering, with it's knock on effects, as in negative effects of our meno on others etc.
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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #55 on: October 01, 2014, 02:19:41 PM »

Have you got a close friend or relative that would be prepared to go with you to give you confidencre and act as your advocate if necessary Dandelion?

Hurdity x

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Dandelion

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #56 on: October 01, 2014, 05:55:46 PM »

Have you got a close friend or relative that would be prepared to go with you to give you confidencre and act as your advocate if necessary Dandelion?

Hurdity x
Sadly no, although my friends care, they think doctor knows best and as they don't know about menopause, it will take some convincing from me to tell them otherwise.
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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #57 on: October 02, 2014, 06:11:39 PM »

Femaston did not work for me either, I took it for 4 months, hot flushes got much worse in the end I stopped taking it !
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Dandelion

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Re: Having a miserable time
« Reply #58 on: October 02, 2014, 09:01:06 PM »

Femaston did not work for me either, I took it for 4 months, hot flushes got much worse in the end I stopped taking it !
Hi

Did you change to another hrt, if so which one?
thanx
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Dandelion

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*sighs*
« Reply #59 on: October 03, 2014, 07:07:44 AM »

*sighs*
Woke up early sweating and hot, and it isn't even summer.
Am really worried about going to the doc next week.
I'm seeing the doc who got cross with me a few months ago, when I told her femoston did not work.
I'm worried she will tell me she has no time to read dr curries email, even though Dr Curry really helped me.
Worried they may just deregister me from the surgery.
Why all these obstacles, I just want the right hrt for me.

EDIT - I've started taking mebeverine for IBS on tuesday, it has helped my IBS - I wonder if it will help with absorption of femoston?
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