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Author Topic: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but  (Read 36407 times)

honeybun

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #105 on: August 07, 2015, 06:50:22 PM »
Sis back tomorrow...oh thank you God.

I was told today that.

I am a thief......I stole her house....ummm....I bought it  ::)
There was something wrong with my mind and I was going funny and needed to see a doctor.
I did not have a sore back I was imagining it and should go to a doctor.
I wasn't to go to her funeral
She hated me
She was going to burn the house down.

A fun filled morning as you all can gather.


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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #106 on: August 07, 2015, 07:02:16 PM »
 :-X ……… when does Sis take over exactly?  Hurtful words: ? : because your Mum is cross and finds herself between a rock and a hard place.  However, getting ratty at you won't endear her to you  ::) anymore than mine did in November: I thought she was going to smack my face she was so cross at issues surrounding her fall I think had DH not entered the room I would have been sporting a black eye  :o

The more my Mum is nasty the more I am determined that she will find herself relying on 'friends' and neighbours  ;)

When do you go back there Honeybun?
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honeybun

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #107 on: August 07, 2015, 07:12:07 PM »
Sunday CLKD.....I just left after an hour after doing her pills for the week and cooking her a couple of dinners  ::)

She is just a silly old woman who thinks if she shouts loud enough everything will remain the same. Well it won't this time as I simply can't do the housework.
Her and my sis will have to work it out between them. Up to them. They know what I can do and more importantly what I can't.

My mother is very small these days so if she hit me I would have a bruised knee  ;D


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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #108 on: August 07, 2015, 07:40:52 PM »
Oh heck Honeyb.
Which bit of, your Dr said you have a slipped disc was unclear?
Well done you for being so patient.
I know you don't want your hubby to have a a word with your Mum, but could he do it very very gently?
If not him somebody else, would your Son do it, she likes him doesn't she?
I'me sorry to nag but it must be so wearing for you when she doesn't listen.
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babyjane

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #109 on: August 08, 2015, 10:16:11 AM »
sometimes our older generation get scared of change especially if they can't understand it or are worried what it will mean for them and you do have to be so very patient. I can be a bit like this at my age and have been known to shout at times  ::)

However your mother sounds like a different case, so very like my paternal grandmother, and it is emotional bullying to try and control a situation they don't feel in control of.  In my grandmother's case it was also coupled with longstanding mental issues - paranoia and narcissism - so my poor mother didn't stand a chance with her.  It was her mother in law too and there was no love lost.  My father just stuck his head in the sand and was clueless how to deal with it so he would toddle off to the bookshop and leave mum to weather the storms  >:(.
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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #110 on: August 08, 2015, 09:42:31 PM »
Sunday 2-morrow  ;)
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honeybun

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #111 on: August 08, 2015, 09:55:17 PM »
Oh heck, don't remind me  ::)


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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #112 on: August 08, 2015, 09:55:52 PM »
It's OK - Sis will deal with it  ;) - you are resting 2morrow!
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honeybun

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #113 on: August 08, 2015, 09:57:14 PM »
Eh nope, I'm going to mothers.....cooking to be done.....moaning to be listened to  ???


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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #114 on: August 08, 2015, 09:58:32 PM »
Borrow some headphones and learn a language while there? or get some fluffy ear-muffs  :D

Sis takes over when?
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honeybun

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #115 on: August 08, 2015, 10:01:53 PM »
That's up to her and mother. I've said what I can do until I feel better. What doesn't get done gets left.

Sis never house works for mother at any time....that's what I'm for it would seem  ::)


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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #116 on: August 08, 2015, 10:03:34 PM »
Bugga - not any more though?  Time to step back ………. do you cook the meals you've prepared in the microwave and serve?
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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #117 on: August 09, 2015, 12:40:58 PM »
How was she this morning?
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honeybun

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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #118 on: August 09, 2015, 12:55:57 PM »
She has accepted that a cleaner is being brought in for a couple of weeks so that's an improvement.
The morning was quite quiet which was good.

I cook the meals there CLKD, they are then cling filmed, cooled and frozen. She brings out what she wants in the morning and then heats up in the microwave. Ready meals but homemade  ::)

It's what she is used to although her diet is quite limited as her digestive system is not what it was.

We get there  ::)

Glad to be home now though.


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Re: I know every one must be fed up hearing this...but
« Reply #119 on: August 09, 2015, 01:09:30 PM »
That sounds like a definite improvement.
Have you got a cleaner lined up?
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