Pleased to hear the bleeding has stopped - that's great. I think you were on too much oestrogen before. To ensure the patches work you do need to keep them in place. I tried patches for a short time many years ago and I did have some problems with them sticking. Ensuring your skin is clean and dry before applying is crucial and maybe make sure they are placed where they are less likely to catch on clothing. I don't think things will settle unless the patches are in constant contact with your skin and, again, you need to give things time to settle. I'm afraid HRt doesn't always take away all the meno symptoms but if you are feeling less anxious and the flushes are reduced then you are doing well.
Do remember we are experiencing extreme heat and humidity at the moment which make any flushes ten times worse. I can't wait for it to cool down.
DG xxx