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GypsyRoseLee

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I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« on: May 25, 2014, 11:36:01 AM »

I was diagnosed with anxiety and mild depression at Xmas, and have been taking ADs for the last 4 months. The tablets seem to work, but only for about 3 weeks at a time. Then the horrible anxiety comes back, my sleep pattern is disrupted, my concentration is nil and I feel very lethargic and low. Oh, and there's the furious rages I get into.

Each time I think my ADs have stopped working, and go back to my GP who assures me that can't happen. I feel dreadful for about 7 to 10 days then I start to improve again.

These episodes are roughly linked to my menstrual cycle and they are ruining my life. My GP tested my bloods to see if my hormones were wrong. They came back fine. They have now suggested I take the Pill with no break, so I won't ovulate. I am not remotely convinced this is the answer, all my research points to me needing hormones to help me.

I am nearly 44, and early menopause runs in the family. My poor Mum's symptoms were identical to mine, but her GP just put her on tranquillisers for years to help.

My GP has hinted he could refer me to a specialist clinic, but would like me to try the Pill for 3 months first. I don't want to wait 3 months. I can't have another month like this. whilst I was having my mense last week I instigated a huge row with a neighbour who had blocked my drive, and I spewed a stream of verbal abuse at a teenager who made a nasty remark about the scarf I was wearing. I think I terrified him. I know I am scaring myself. Today I have promised to take my children swimming but feel too anxious to leave the house.

I HATE FEELING LIKE THIS.

Does anyone have any advice. Should I insist on referral to this specialist clinic, and will even they be able to help me?
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Joyce

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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2014, 11:49:29 AM »

Don't delay, ask for a referral, before you do/say something you'll really regret. Say you can't carry on as you are.
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Suzyq

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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2014, 11:50:20 AM »

Definitely sounds hormone related. I would ask for a referral but the Bc pill does seem to help lots of women! It may be worth trying in the short-term just to meet your gp halfway! Maybe take it but ask him to refer you immediately to specialist as there is likely to be a waiting list! In the meantime, do keep a journal of your symptoms as is will be helpful in determining where the problems lie. In peri, it tends to be progesterone that is depleted first! This was the case for me so I got by for a few years just supplementing this.

Ps my identical symptoms started at 44 also!
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Mrs January

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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #3 on: May 25, 2014, 12:06:14 PM »

Hey Gypsyroselee..

Bless you it is so tough juggling all this and  a family too. I agree try to seek medical support as you can. Do you a have  a wellbeing service in your area/ google wellbeing services for the area you live it. I used it here in Norfolk and it has been great. Keep a dairy of your symptoms...maybe avoid all alcohol and caffeine and not too much sugar...all can affect your mood. Hang on in there , live fort he present as you can't change the past but can move forward....

Love n ugs Mrs Janauary
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GypsyRoseLee

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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #4 on: May 25, 2014, 04:36:35 PM »

Thank you for the replies.

Suzyq can I ask how you managed your symptoms, and what medication you took? Also did your symptoms seem to appear overnight and then disappear just as quickly until the next time?
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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #5 on: May 25, 2014, 04:51:22 PM »

Moods can over-rule the effect of ADs.  The brain needs support in the same way as our other organs but as it's 'up there', often gets forgotten.  You know how you feel ……..  PMT can over-rule medication, when I feel low for more than 3 days I up my dosage for 5-7 days ……… I take 5mg at night and am prescribed 5mg at breakfast but only take the latter if my brain requires it.

The AD dosage might not be enough for those hormonal shifts you describe.  What are you taking and what dosage?
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Suzyq

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« Reply #6 on: May 25, 2014, 11:21:54 PM »

Hi yes my symptoms would hit overnight, last 7-10 days then go! I tried everything then doctor finally said my progesterone was very low and gave me this! I used it fairly successfully until my estrogen levels fell then I needed both. The pill may well work for you so do think about trying it - my problems were all from ovulation! Omg it was terrible!!
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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #7 on: May 26, 2014, 10:45:36 AM »

HORMONES  >:(
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Taz2

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Re: I feel so hopeless, and my GP is useless. Please help.
« Reply #8 on: May 26, 2014, 11:02:39 AM »

I reckon the specialist will also recommend trying the bcp for a few months. I think that you should give it a go and then, if it hasn't worked, at least that will be one avenue you have tried before seeing the specialist.

The mini pill worked wonderfully for my really out of control pmt symptoms.

Taz x
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honeybun

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« Reply #9 on: May 26, 2014, 12:42:23 PM »

My normally very mild tempered daughter was like a witch before her period. The mini pill has calmed every thing down.

I agree with the others, give it a try and see if it helps.


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