At the moment I'm not having my stoma reversed, I need a couple of years rest bite from pain, so not doing it yet and on HRT which has taken away some symptoms.
My sinus, dizzyness, nausea, migraines, aching joints and hernia are all still a daily part of my life, every single day. Still on warfarin and will be for life. I am mostly at the hospital or clinic every two or three weeks continually
Issues with partner continuing, but I'm past caring. However I am supporting him through his cancer
My son I talk to regularly, but still not seen grand daughter, his girlfriend won't budge, so just leaving it as it is
I'm not blaming my ex husband for my illness, I'm blaming him for ruining my life and trust, and made me into a person I don't recognise. Yes I fought back and just made the best of what I have and had. That was about 7 years ago. I wasn't looking for him by the way, he appeared as a friend on my friends FB page, I nearly fell off my chair. I despise him intently, Karma I am sure will catch him out