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If you have gone all through your 40s with no extra oestrogen then frankly your GP is negligent
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The argument about having to come off HRT at some stage is a nonsense - I came off HRT 6 months ago(I'm now 58) and it hasn't been that bad. I had premature meno and have taken HRT for most of the last 20years. I had a break in my late 40s and suffered for 3 years then went back on. This time my flushes settled quite quickly but I am feeling very tired and achey. However, at least having used HRT till recently, I have protected my heart and bones for a few more years.
If your periods stopped 8 years ago this is a premature menopause and the long term consequences for your heart and bones could be a problem.
If your bones are already suffering because of the lack of oestrogen then it is well worth using HRT for at least 5 years to help build them up again.
Vagifem should help with problems of all your lady bits. Pelvic floor exercises will help with bladder control and prevent prolapses. Have you been referred to a physiotherapist or a gynaecologist?
Why not pay the £25 for an email consultation with Dr Currie on this site? You could then show it to your GP? DG x