Hi Shellb,
I am taking Oestrogel and Utrogestan (replied on another post to you about today!) and I am very happy on Oestrogel. It took a little while to kick in fully. I started slowly on 1 pump for a few weeks, then 1 1/2 for another, going up to 2 pumps. I use it in the mornings on my legs as I prefer to keep it as far away from my breasts as possible, although the instructions state you can put it on your arms too. I leave it for 5 mins before getting dressed so it is fully absorbed (it dries very quickly). I like the fact you can use the right amount for you and I find it easy to use as I have made it part of my morning routine (my Oestrogel sits next to my toothbrush and toothpaste, so I don't forget to use it!). For me, it doesn't really have any disadvantages as I am happy to use what I feel is the best delivery system for the body. I know others here prefer the patches as they don't have to think about putting on the gel every day. It is horses for courses and I hope my experience with it helps you decide what is right for you!
Julie xx