Hi Living life,
Not good to feel like that, especially when your up for work the next day!
Sounds like your very run down....are you on HRT?
I started having heavy periods and bad meno symptoms around 4 years ago, I was 44. I too was offered the coil to help heavy periods and I also tried months of alternative remedies but it didn't help at all. HRT has helped, at the moment I'm having to change HRT but I'm hoping once it settles in my system again, I will start feeling better.
I too worked full time but due to other illnesses and a bad menopause Iv decided to leave the job I loved and concentrate on my health.....for the moment anyway.
Hope you start feeling better soon. Xxx