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countrybumpkin

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weight!!!!!!!
« on: March 12, 2014, 11:07:10 AM »

Due to a combination of genetics, underactive thryoid that is never stable and lack of exercise due to spinal problems I have always been 4 stones overweight even though I eat the same as someone at weightwatchers >:( >:(  If I ate normally goodness knows what size i would be.

I am now post menopausal having not had a period for past 18 months and slowly my weight has crept up over past 6 months so I am nearly 5 stones overweight now :o :o  Gp said this is directly due to the menopause.

My Gp is very sympathetic and believes my food diary that i keep religiously but says only answer is to eat even less, unless I can increase my exercise.
Between a rock and a hard place.

Anyone else on here having the same problems with weight??

I can't drive due to being partially sighted so getting to a slimming class is not really fair on my husband who is my constant taxi driver poor soul.

Is anyone interested in being an email diet friend?



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CLKD

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« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2014, 12:22:10 PM »

Could you have a personal trainer at home for some education in gentle exercise, maybe a gift from husband/friend/family?  Or perhaps there is someone at the 'gym' who would collect you or try the local blind organisation to see if there are volunteer drivers?

Line dancing?  Perhaps something hubby can join in with, have you asked him how he feels about being your 'driver'?  You may be surmising that he is 'fed up' but in actual fact  ;)
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honeybun

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« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2014, 01:56:16 PM »

You can join weight watchers online and do it from home so no need to go to classes. Not sure if there is maybe a support forum as well but maybe worth a look.

You can post here anytime and we will give you all the encouragement that we can. Have you thought of asking your GP for a referral to a dietician and also a physio. One for diet advice and one for exercises that would be suitable for you. Your GP should really be able to help you with this.


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Galadriel

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« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2014, 02:29:28 PM »

Hi countrybumpkin.

There is a great community support forum on WW online site. There are a number of membership options for on-line members and you can track food, weight, measurements etc to suit yourself :)

I was a member for a few years, just on line. I dropped 2.5 stone over a year. I found it really good for me and my lifestyle. I walked to start with, then walked faster, and finally got into a decent enough shape to ride a bike!

I'm still managing to stay more or less on target.

I hope you find a workable solution for you  :)

Galadriel x
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Joyce

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« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2014, 04:02:40 PM »

I started swimming last year to help me lose some weight. It was slow coming off but after nearly 8 months I lost nearly 2 stones, that and a calorie controlled diet which I stuck to most of the time. I'm not a brilliant swimmer, but 30 minutes 4/5 times a week certainly helped me. 

As for dieting I used an app on my tablet, to keep me on the straight & narrow. It was free. Know a few who have used it & had similar success. In fact friend of son's girlfriend has used it to lose weight for her upcoming wedding in May. She's lost heaps & looks FAB.
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Winterose

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« Reply #5 on: March 12, 2014, 04:21:45 PM »

How about 5:2 diet or a variation of it? Really overweight people lose a  lot and its not faddy , check out their forums,Can be done for life .Swimming sounds good, let us know how you get on,  :D
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countrybumpkin

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« Reply #6 on: March 12, 2014, 04:36:26 PM »

 :)Thanks everyone.   I am about to see a physio but in the past have found I have been made worse pain wise so have to very careful with any exercise. I have severe arthritis and collapsed disc in my neck and everything affects it even a short walk of 15 mins will leave me in great pain so this is why increasing exercise is not that easy ::) 
I can only swim on my back ( due to neck again) and I love being in the water BUT I am just so ashamed of my body that unless allowed in fully dressed I just do not have the confidence to go! Must work on this!!!!
I was wondering about joining WW online as well, will look into this.
Wish me luck :)
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« Reply #7 on: March 12, 2014, 04:59:11 PM »

I do! 
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Re: weight!!!!!!!
« Reply #8 on: March 12, 2014, 05:42:35 PM »

Hi countrybumpkin

Sorry to hear about your struggles with weight.

My view would be to try to get your thyroid sorted out because it sounds like you are putting on weight despite not eating a large amount. Can you get referred to a specialist so that you can have the right dose of thyroxine or whatever it is you need to take?

If you can stabilise this and then carry on eating a reduced calorie diet, hopefully you can lose enough weight so that exercise is less of a problem.

Swimming sounds like the way to go. Can you find a time when there are not so many people there? Are there sessions of older women or women only? If you can work on this - the lack of confidence in showing your body, it would be so good for your health generally.

Is there a health club or somewhere with a private pool - I imagine these are probably hugely expensive!

Re diets - I would not want to go on any diet where I had to go hungry and it should be possible to lose weight with either weight watchers or slimming world. I think they do have forums, and yes go for the on-line ones, get the phone app ( if that's what you;re into) and join the forums!

Good luck

Hurdity x
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KatieLiz

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« Reply #9 on: March 12, 2014, 08:43:25 PM »

Why not try an online tracker, its completely free unlike WW?  When you register you put your current weight, goal weight, your age and how active you are, then it works out how many calories you can eat to lose weight.  It has all the portion sizes worked out for everything you eat ie grams, oz, etc, so whatever you eat you can track it to know how many calories are in it.  Eg 4oz chicken breast or a small banana, or 125g of yoghurt etc.  It gives all the supermarket brands and most restaurants as well, and (if you have a smart phone) you can scan bar codes to give you the calorie count.

It also lets you put in your exercise - it starts you with 8 hours sleep and 16 hours resting and then you add your exercise in place of resting ie 5 hours sitting, 1 hour standing, 30 minutes walking, 1 hour housework etc

It sends you an email every 2 weeks to remind you to enter your new weight.  So far I have lost 3lbs in 2 weeks which is not a massive amount but it makes me aware of what I'm eating.  Today I had 2 mini Thorntons caramel squares (a mouthful) and they were 71 calories each!  But I still didn't go over my allowance.

I found this site on the NHS website www.fatsecret.co.uk but there are others.  I find it really helpful to eat what I want but to try to stay within the calorie allowance and by tracking it like this (including drinks ie instant coffee and semiskimmed milk 25 cal - I drink about 6 a day) it really makes you aware of exactly what you are eating and drinking.

Also I don't feel deprived and I think most women at menopausal age know what foods to eat to keep them healthy and don't need to follow a faddy diet.
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countrybumpkin

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« Reply #10 on: March 13, 2014, 07:46:00 PM »

Lovely to get your ideas.. I saw a nhs physio today who thankfully agreed that hands on treatment is not the way to go and she thinks acupuncture for pain relief would be a start so first session next week.
I am going to use one of the free food trackers as I already keep a food diary and try to weigh things but maybe my guessing is not as good as it could be ::) and I am eating more than I think!
There is a hotel pool near to me and I did join a couple of years ago but the water is freezing most of the time and trying to find a time to go inbetween all the activities they have was not easy but I may give it another go.
I'm off for another thyroid test in next few weeks so hopefully its still stable but if not then I am going to push for a endocrinologist appt.
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Joyce

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« Reply #11 on: March 13, 2014, 09:24:23 PM »

Food tracker worked for me, so I wish you luck. Worth giving swimming another go, hopefully you can work something out to suit you.
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Re: weight!!!!!!!
« Reply #12 on: March 14, 2014, 11:01:52 PM »

I'm struggling with my weight too so this thread is very interesting.  I have always had a bit of a weight problem but since the meno it has escalated and it makes me very unhappy.  I am now a size 18 and even though I am 5ft 10 I feel very uncomfortable.  My Bmi tells me I am obese :(
I have started exercising and cutting down but it's not enough - I will have to track and count what I am eating as it's very very easy to underestimate the calories .  I will look at some of the websites mentioned as they sound good but I am rather weak willed and do enjoy my glass of wine .  But I can't go on like this as I feel horrible and it affects my confidence in all sorts of ways.   
Have a nice weekend everyone :)
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Joyce

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« Reply #13 on: March 15, 2014, 11:26:05 AM »

I enjoy glass of wine too groundhog, but it's still possible. It's having the will to persevere. I have to admit that I'm not being very good at the moment. I know I should, but just can't be bothered. Not so much the eating less, more the dragging myself to do exercise. I've been weaning myself off HRT this year & I'm afraid last year's get up & go has kind of got up & gone.
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groundhog

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« Reply #14 on: March 16, 2014, 09:22:34 PM »

Yes know what you mean Cubagirl.  It's hard to keep motivated.  We went for a long walk on the beach but then had cappuccino and fruit bread. Ok not too naughty but how the calories add up.  I know from past experience I cannot guess calories I have to count and weigh and sometimes I feel - you know what I cannot be bothered.  But the I try onmy size 18 trous and they are right and im miserable.
Oh well new week starts tomorrow lets hope it's a good one for everyone.
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