Hi Maryjane
I do empathise. I'm using Vagifem 3 times a week and did try Ovestin externally but found it really irritated badly - the Vagifem is slightly better. I have almost constant burning in my urethra which makes sleeping difficult and I certainly find sitting down very, very uncomfortable at the moment. Fortunately my job involves walking around and climbing up and down stairs - I'm getting so tired!!!!
I may try using an Estring as it may not involve all the fillers and could possibly be less irritating??!!!! The only lady on this site who seems to be using the Estring is Ancient Runner - have a look at the thread entitled 'Any one using Estring?" I'm not sure why it is not used more in the UK - it seems to give a slightly higher amount of oestrogen?!!!
I suspect your Atrophy is even worse that mine so this is why you find it so painful to insert the cream - you poor,poor thing - it's so miserable. I did read some of the research done on treating AV with local oestrogen and it mentions that it can take 6 month to a year for things to improve!
I intend to persevere with some form of oestrogen treatment as I don't want to have this pain for the rest of my life. DG XXXX
p.s.I am sitting here typing with a very sore and burning fanny