thanks for all the responses - it's really interesting to read them.
limpy - I didn't know that ADs were used for pain relief too. Surely a strange solution for long term pain relief though? (cubagirl's son's GF thinks so too).
cubagirl - stories like your mum make me really sad (and also angry). Women of her generation were supposed to just "put up with it as its not a disease". Nor is having you arm cut off but no one would suggest putting up with that without any treatment!
honeybun - so glad you have a sympathetic gp
Taz2 - is there a valid reason why HRT is not suitable at an older age? I;ve not encountered any clinical trials which show that natural hormones become more dangerous with age. In fact some doctors regard hormones as a treatment similar to insulin for diabetics (which interestingly is another hormone too!) and a life-long treatment. Why not? Isn't quality of life just as important?
bev - brilliant idea to put a package together - united we stand!
ellie66 - lol - dry ***** psychological! mmm...
CLKD - totally agree - see my take on "wood for the trees" below...
Kathleen - I completely agree that it may well be a 'fashion' thing. I am no expert in medical matters but I do wonder if there is a root problem in the source of GPs' information?
I am not trying to be down on GPs as it must be incredibly hard keeping up to date. Sadly, lots of their research literature comes via drug companies (as reading journal articles with less bias is just too time-consuming). If that is the case then they will be reading lots about ADs (a huge profit maker for drug companies) and not a lot about, say, bio-identical HRT which is non-patentable and so not so lucrative. Again, I'm not being down on drug companies - they need to make profits too. Without the knowledge of modern safer HRT (and with memories of the dangerous side-effects of some older synthetic HRT methods) GPs are going to remain resistant to prescribing it which is a tragedy for so many women.
I have seen on some drug-based websites that "BHRT has not been shown to be any safer than regular HRT". That's mainly because there haven't been many trials using BHRT as it is not a money-maker and so lacks funding for such trials! Without realising that it is very easy to mislead both patients and GPs.
If your main symptoms are depression and tearfulness (which they so often are during menopause) then I cannot blame GPs for reaching for their prescription pads for ADs. It is a problem that we tend to treat
symptoms and not
causes in the medical world. It doesn't take a rocket-scientist (or even a doctor
) to determine that the depression and tearfulness have a hormone-balance root/cause and so would be much more efficiently treated with BHRT which would help with the majority of physical symptoms too, than with ADs. These same GPs would then not have to endure us coming back again and again to have the other symptoms not helped by ADs alleviated.
I think lots of us end up in endless loops back and forth to GPs which is no help to us and just seems to make GPs equally frustrated and even more likely to regard us as neurotic and in need of ADs...
argghhhh!
hil x