Hi Claireylou
I am as well, I'm 47 and have been in peri meno for three years, after. Terrible time I went on HRT Everol Sequil 50 patches, and am feeling a lot better, but still feel I'll on and off. Being on Sequil HRT means I get ableed every month at roughly the same time, started off light to normal red , but last four or five months have its been light red to start for couple of days then brownish then dark red then brown then back to dark red sometimes a bit heavy, but not enough to flood I think it could be that I'm further into meno and not peri anymore, or I'm having my own period breakthrough as well as HRT bleed if that makes sense.
The only way to really tell for me would be o come off HRT and see if I still have periods, but I am not keen to do this yet partly because of the anxiety and horrible doom feelings I had prior to HRT .
Are you on any HRT , or Ar you tying to manage without?