The reason GP advice varies is because they are not up to date with current thinking. Unfortunately the NICE guidelines are only just starting to be revised and this will take a couple of years ( Dr Currie posted about this on the forum).
As I said below, if any of you want to stay on HRT and there is no medical reason for you personally to stop, then you should be given it. As Taz said - as long as you are aware of the risks (as they are reported from the Women's Health Initiative Study and the Million Women Study) then it should be your decision. If you really want to stay on HRT then don't be fobbed off!!
If the doctor refuses to give it to you and tried to make you come off against your will, then make sure you get a referral to a meno clinic. I appreciate these are few and far between - my nearest one is 60 miles away but if my GP practice wasn't sympathetic I would insist on a referral. It's not far to go for a treatment to make me feel well!
Honeybun - if you get into the situation where you would like HRT and are refused then I presume you would go the 40 miles if it was going to make a huge difference? I can appreciate your dilemma at the moment - trying different things to find out what makes you feel best, but anxiety aside, the oestrogen is sure to be doing you good. Hopefully your symptoms won't return too badly too soon....
Hurdity x