![Grin ;D](https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/Smileys/extended/grin.gif)
.... haven't we all been in that situation where there is a fait accompli ........ where the 'push off you are not wanted here' words don't spring out of our mouths as they should have done
![Roll Eyes ::)](https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/Smileys/extended/rolleyes.gif)
........ hopefully she will have the words ready if there is a next time, how much do you bet that there will be ......... I now say 'no' quite easily
![whistle :whist:](https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/Smileys/extended/whistle.gif)
well, mostly
![Lips Sealed :-X](https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/Smileys/extended/lipsrsealed.gif)
It's the being caught on the hop that catches us out.