My son and daughter have had a little boy, he's so beautiful, I have a bit of a dilemma though regarding my OH. He seems to be unable to open up to his new grandson, I'm babysitting overnight on Friday and cant wait, however the OH says that he thinks they're really irresponsible for going out and leaving him overnight, he's a couple of months now- the BABY not the OH!!!
I'm caught between everyone, my son who cant understand his Dad's attitude, his girlfriend who is also puzzled and myself who cant wait to get cuddling and being a Granny!!!I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
The OH's Mum died when he was about 10 and he never experienced 'family' stuff- couldnt understand why I gave my relatives and friends hugs when we first met. Perhaps he just doesn't know how to be a 'Grandad'- or maybe he's just a pain in the ******! ?
are there any books that he could maybe look through etc?
Thanks from a wonderfully happy Grandma. (most of the time!)
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