If I had not listened to my many friends (who have had/hadnot hysterectomies themselves) I would still be fine with my surgeon's advice to have my ovaries removed at the same time. However, I am now not sure. My well-meaning friends have sown seeds of doubt. Here's my scenario and I would be pleased to read anyone's comments - especially if your story is similar to mine. So here goes...
About 6 months ago it was discovered that I had calcified fibroids in my uterus. All was fine - come back in 6 months. So I did. Now it seems, things have progressed. My uterus is now the size of a 5 month pregnant one and I have 3 fairly large fibroids around it - on the outside I think. My gynacologist suggest I have it removed and my surgeon suggested that he would do a laparoscopical hysterectomy and remove my ovaries too. I am 55 years old, have been peri menopausal for the last few years. I hadn't had a period since July last year but then in March/April this year I had 3 in about 7 weeks - really, really heavy (I couldn't leave the house). I have had hot flushes for the last year or so but my blood test show I am not yet menopausal.
I would appreciate your comments - just to keep me sane!!